The 5 Dating Mistakes I Vowed to Avoid After Divorce

Have you been off the dating arena since you got divorced? However, is the single status taking its toll on you? If the answers to the above questions is a ‘yes’, it is time to get into a relationship. But your emotional strength at this point of time is understandably vulnerable. Thus, you need to be careful in choosing a partner else the pain of the divorce will reflect in your current relationship, resulting in some not-so-good memories. Personally, these are the five dating mistakes I vowed to avoid after divorce, which I decided to pen down for you guys.

Take it Slow

While you are single, you are surely in a hurry to mingle! But most discussions taken in haste prove to harmful. Thus, it is necessary for you to keep a slow pace. Don’t just think of getting laid. Wait for the right person to come into your life.

Axe your Ex

Your ex had some good qualities and if you are looking for similar qualities in your current partner, I pity you! Every person in this world is unique and thus, it is necessary to accept the person as they are. Give your current relationship some quality time and enjoy it rather than comparing it with your past.

Time Heals Almost Everything

When they say time heals everything, it does mean everything! Time can cure the worst wounds. But you need to give time, some time. If you feel that not seeing your friends and family or missing your best friend’s wedding will cure you of the pain, you ought to think again. Everything will fall in place, however you need to patient with time. 

Let Go off the Baggage

Feeling guilty or blaming yourself for the relationship not working out, is the most common and by far the serious mistake that most of us commit. Dating is not something which should affect you emotionally and physically. If you had committed some mistakes in your relationship, so did your ex. Thus, there is no point in blaming yourself for the relationship not working out. 

 Take Some ‘ME’ Time

While you were going through your divorce, it is but obvious that you might have completely ignored ‘yourself’. How would you expect someone to like you, if you were not at your best! Book an appointment with a beautician or spa expert, and ease yourself. Hit the gym and workout to keep yourself fit. You surely want to become irresistible for your future partner, don’t you?

Even though your past relationship didn’t work the way you wanted it to, there is enough love for everyone. You will surely find your sweetheart, in days to come. Till then, how about enjoying the single status? Just kidding! Make sure you choose the right partner, so that you are saved of the pain of yet another broken relationship. Don’t enter into a rebound relationship. It will only make things difficult for you in the future. Be loyal and honest to your future partner, and let love bless you again.